Welcome my friend! This week has been one that hopefully I won’t have to ever repeat again. It all started Friday night when I sat down to eat dinner with my husband…
But before we continue let’s grab our cuppa’s & get comfy. Today is a beautiful sunny Winter’s day here on the east coast of Australia I’m sitting in the sun that’s streaming through our dining room’s double glass sliding door that leads out to our pergola.
I can see the different hues of green in our garden at the moment which are awe inspiring, everything looks lush & the red tips of the Cherry Lillipillis are glowing in the sunshine a wonderful contrast against the green.
Now we’re comfy let’s begin…
Out of the Blue
Those of you who join me here often will be aware that I live with Fibromyalgia (FM). Over the past two decades I have learnt to see this season in my life as a blessing rather then a curse. For God’s love, grace, strength & comfort has shone to new depths within my soul during this time. Keeping His promise;
“…He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you [My loving kindness and My mercy are more than enough—always available—regardless of the situation]; for [My] power is being perfected [and is completed and shows itself most effectively] in [your] weakness (vulnerability).” 2 Corinthians 12: 9 AMP
If you’re not familiar with what FM is, it impacts the whole body, the main impact is chronic pain that can jump throughout the body or be localised in specific areas of the body at different times.
FM also has cycles but unfortunately there is no pattern nor timing to these cycles. Those of us who have FM are always in pain with one cycle or the other, one cycle may have less intensity to the pain & symptoms where the other cycle will amp up their intensity massively known as a flare.
With FM we often experience jaw & tooth pain that can be there for as long as whatever cycle we’re in (but isn’t from tooth decay or any reason needing Dental care) then disappears as fast at it came! So over the past fortnight my jaw has been experiencing this…having no decayed teeth I put it down to FM again.

Extreme Pain is the Body’s Alarm we need to heed
However, this all changed on Friday night. Suddenly an excruciating pain shot through my jaw & up into my skull as I was eating dinner. I couldn’t understand this as the meal we were eating wasn’t hard in fact it was quite soft, it was home made Irish Stew that I had slowed cooked accompanied by gf bread.
My first go to is always to go to my Heavenly Father in prayer, I asked Him to please open up an emergency dental appointment the next day. As before I had gone to bed that night I had researched where the emergency dental surgeries were in our area to hopefully get in the next day which was a Saturday.
Unfortunately there was only one clinic that was open the next morning being the weekend! Thus at 11pm Friday night I sent an email through their website explaining the situation & prayed that God would please open a spot for me.
The pain persisted through that night which seemed to be a very long night, even though I had taken analgesics to try & alleviate the pain. And I couldn’t lower my top jaw to my bottom jaw without that unbelievable pain shooting through my jaw & head.
And unfortunately each time I managed to doze off my top jaw would rest upon my bottom jaw causing that excruciating pain instantly waking me.
Praise God my phone rang first thing the next morning & the Dental Clinic I had messaged were able to put me in to see their dental surgeon immediately. The diagnosis, a very large Abscess that had already penetrated the jaw bone under a large molar with no evidence of decay that had caused the problem!
The only solution over the coming days was to have strong Antibiotics & schedule either Root Canal Therapy or an extraction in the when things had settled a little…as they couldn’t even examine my mouth, it was that excruciating to open having to diagnose it with an Xray.
I asked the Ladies Prayer Groups which I’m a part of that I mentioned in the:
& my family if they would pray for my situation as it is a huge ordeal to go through excruciating pain & surgery when you already have chronic pain. As it not only affects where the tooth is but impacts the whole body.
The Outcome
Well I’m sitting here in my little sanctuary called home with the greatest Sanctuary of all, in God’s care, as I recover from surgery minus that molar. The Dental Clinic I normally go to were able to schedule this surgery during the week.
They found that the molar had a crack in it which had caused the Abscess & the only solution was extraction. We have no idea what cracked it but the Dental Surgeon commented that it did have an amalgam filling in it & the way it had grown made it an already weaken molar.
Unfortunately post surgery isn’t pain free but hopefully should settle over the coming weeks as my body heals. I’m praising God for His answer to prayer through modern medications & surgical procedures!
The Take Away
- Listen to Your Body; Don’t ignore pain! God created us with an inbuilt warning system to tell us when things are not right! Our bodies should not have sharp or continuous pain that has not been diagnosed & either treated or under treatment.
- Corporate Prayer is so very important in all circumstances.
- Is God your first go to? He loves to hear from us & stand with us in challenging circumstances as well as happier times. As;
The LORD your God is among you; He is mighty to save. He will rejoice over you with gladness; He will quiet you with His love; He will rejoice over you with singing.” Zephaniah 3: 17 BSB
Until next time,
Jennifer
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WOW. glad you were helped the following day and that they could find the issue and help you. Praying that you will be better soon and pain free.
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Thank you Esme, appreciate your prayers. Yes I was very glad too. ☺️
I’m back to let you know that you will be featured at SSPS on Monday and pinned to Senior Salon Pit Stop InLinkz Linkup Shares
Oh that’s a lovely surprise Esme, thank you! 😊
Esme I’m having troubles commenting on your site this week, it keeps telling me I’m spam, when I tried to email you it said that I was suspect. I have no idea why this is occurring as you know I have been visiting your site for ages. 🤔
Sorry about this Jennifer. My IT Manager made some changes and hopefully all will be back to normal. I did get your comment on my blog. Thanks
Great Esme, thank you for letting me know. 😊
I’m glad you were able to quickly diagnose the source and take care of it — though I know “quickly” is relative. Hope things improve this coming week.,
Thank you Sandra. 😊
Jennifer, I am so sorry for all you are experiencing. Having gone through much the same thing a few years ago (my crack was below the gum, I also had the molar extracted. May our God bring healing and keep you well. {{hugs}}
Thank you Joanne, it’s quite the ordeal I’m saddened to hear you too had to go through the experience to my friend.
The Lord enlightened me to the fact that sinuses can mimic a tooth problem. One night as I was flossing my bottom right wisdom tooth (yes I still have 2 of them) what appeared to me a toothache started. It was hard sleeping that Friday night. The “toothache” lasted all day Saturday and Sunday. I started searching for an oral surgeon (I had never been to one before). On Sunday morning I asked God to show me if it was my tooth or something else. Well Sunday evening the pain started to disapate and when I woke on Monday morning both the pain and gum swelling was gone! It was my sinuses, so the bottom wisdom teeth are still residing in my mouth.
That’s great, I’m glad all went well for you & you had no need for a Dental Surgeon. 😊
Jennifer, I can’t begin to imagine your pain. Your first response was prayer and that should always be the believer’s response. I admit that sometimes I respond differently. God answered your prayer by a quick dentist appointment. I have had a couple of traumatic dental appointments and oral surgery. I pray that your recovery will go well, sweet friend! Sending hugs🥰
Thank you for your prayers & hugs Pam. 🥰 Yes God did answer my prayer for an emergency appointment the next morning, praise Him.
Oral surgery can definitely be traumatic my friend!
Oh dear Jennifer, what an awful experience for you to suffer. I had pain for three years in my gum due to needing a root canal .They were able to save the tooth, praise God. I still need more dentestry on other failing teeth.
Your advice for coping with sudden pain is indeed very good. Be whole, be well, be blessed, all in the finished work of Jesus. Bless you, Heather D.
Thank you Heather, our Heavenly Father is indeed gracious! Blessings for your Dentistry journey too!