Welcome my friend! I’m so glad you have joined me here for our cuppa & reflection together.
I have coffee for a change & a gf fruit cake for us today.
I love being treated like a lady!
There’s nothing that grabs my attention more then a gentleman!
I love doors being held open for me, a seat offered on a bus or train & courteous gestures of chivalry!
You see I love being treated like a lady!
I so admire the courage, thoughtfulness & the self sacrifice of the men who gift these chivalrous acts.
Gentlemanly behavior melts my heart. Because it’s a man putting a woman first!
It’s considerate, kind, thoughtful & honoring!
My late husband Ed, as well as my present hubby Steve both caught my attention with their quiet, gentle & considerate ways as gentleman.
The definition of a gentleman; a courageous, honorable, chivalrous & courteous man.
The Perfect gentleman
Many years ago when my daughters were in their teens, while we were traveling home from extra curricula activities, the topic of gentlemanly behavior arose.
My second born asked who I thought was a good example of the perfect gentleman.
This was easy to answer, as there is only one perfect gentleman who has walked this earth & He is a thorough gentleman!
I explained…
- He is courageous,
- He is honorable,
- He is courteous
- He is attentive,
- He is patient,
- He is never forceful but always gentle,
- His kindness abounds,
- He has made the ultimate self sacrifice,
- His chivalry is beyond measure…
An example of this is seen in His following words;
“I stand at the door [of each heart] & knock,
whoever hears My voice &
opens the door [of their heart]
I will come in &
dine with them &
they with me.” said Jesus.
Revelation 3:20
The perfect gentleman is the Son of God, Jesus Christ.
Isn’t that amazing!
Jesus stands at the door of our heart, knocks & calls to us.Then patiently waits for us to invite Him in!
It’s always refreshing to remember His constant gifts to us through His Spirit…
Thoughtful protection, peace that passes understanding, gentle guidance & direction…for more read Prayer
Until next time,
Jennifer
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My husband is a sweet gentleman too. I appreciate men (and women!) who go the extra mile in being courteous to both women and men. It’s so delightful to trust that our Jesus is that way as well.
Yes, courtesy is such a gem in those who gift it & they definitely stand out as shining examples in this world today!
I love courteous gentlemen, too. There’s nothing more manly than a follower of Jesus who follows him in every way–especially the way Jesus treated women.
Oh I totally agree Anita! 😀
Oops… It’s 52 blessed years! Grateful for each one. ❤ xo
Wonderful, Jennifer! I’m with you all the way… I was attracted to my husband Dan 57 years ago for just those reasons. The beauty of your post is in your revelation of our Lord Jesus as the perfect gentleman–the one who knocked gently at my door for many years. At age 25 I opened that door and received the best gift anyone could ever receive–Jesus, the gift who keeps giving. ❤ Blessings and love, dear friend.
Thank you Bette, He definitely is the best gift that keeps on giving! ♥ 57 years together, wow!! What a blessing. 😀
true gentlemen seem to be rare finds these days. not only one who has kind manners, but those who have gentle hearts that prompt their actions.
* sigh *
I’m glad Jesus is that rare find Linda 😀
Having lived with much abuse before I became a Christian, one of the most important things I ever heard was that Jesus would never force Himself on me. That made conversion imaginable.
What a relief & comfort that must have been for you Elizabeth after having suffered such times… I’m so glad you heard His gentle knock & opened the door of your heart to Him. 😀
He actually was pretty persistent. Kind but persistent.
Absolutely, Jennifer! Christ is the perfect example for “gentlemanly behavior”. We should answer his knock with a joyful heart!
What joy we experience when we do Laurie! 😀
Jesus Christ, the perfect example of a gentleman. He doesn’t force the door open, but waits to be invited in. Jennifer, this a lovely post and thank you for sharing the Good News! Hugs sweet friend!❤️
It’s a joy my dear friend. Thank you for your lovely words of encouragement ♥
Courtesy is never old-fashioned or outmoded for the Christ-follower!
I agree Michele! Lovely having you drop by 😀
Yes! It’s amazing when a man is a gentleman. I’m teaching my 13 year old those skills and it’s such a gift to watch him open the door for people or let a woman go first.
Well done Rebecca! I love hearing that! And we need to teach our young girls to accept this gift of chivalry too! 😀