The unexpected emergency…

Welcome dear friend, I have a cup of my old favorite, Earl Grey tea, in hand because in times like this you reach for that comforting hot cuppa.

Please Grab yourself your favorite cuppa & sit with me for awhile as I share the most unexpected & challenging situation that my husband & I are still traveling at this moment.

Let me set the scene…

My eldest daughter, husband & young family have been visiting, they live 1,000 kilometers interstate, so it has been lovely to have them visiting.

They are on the beginning of their year’s journey of discovery around our beautiful country in their tiny house.

My daughter will be home schooling her three sons during their trip, so they needed to establish a school work routine while here in our little seaside village.

They extended their stay for a week, as the school year has just begun here in Australia.

So while they were here, we made plans to attend our church fellowship together.

I was rather excited that we were all going to share in this time together.

That morning I rose slightly late to have breakfast & get ready for the service, noticing my husband was already up, as his side of the bed was empty.

person holding coffee filled mug

I went out to say good morning to him & to prepare our breakfast cuppa.

As I entered our living room I was instantly on alert as all was not well.

His normal routine had drastically changed!

He was still in his bed attire (he always gets dressed as soon as he gets out of bed each morning, a habit he has done all our married life).

There was evidence he had been lying on the sofa (which he never does) & the ceiling fan was going full pelt (again unusual for him).

I closely observed him as he was slowly pacing the living room, he was in absolute agony, deathly pale, cold & clammy to the touch.

His breathing were quick raspy gasps. He just couldn’t get comfortable, whether he sat, laid down or paced.

I knew this was a medical emergency, my husband is a very stoic man, he rarely shows that he is in pain (he has Chronic Arthritis, so he knows pain).

Thus, for him to exhibit this behaviour with pain was very alarming indeed.

He also has a chronic heart condition & he knows the symptoms within his body when this needs urgent medical care.

I asked him if it was his heart condition… He gasped “no”.

I phoned the emergency services at this point as shared in my post What is your emergency…

When the paramedics arrived, I had already administered the on hand medication as directed by the Ambulance service & made him as comfortable as possible.

Bracing myself to do CPR (Cardiac Pulmonary Resuscitation) on him if needed.

I can’t tell you just how relieved I was when the paramedics arrived within 10 minutes of despatch.

I had been rather concerned that if this was a cardiac event & he did go into Cardiac arrest, just how long would I be realistically capable of keeping up manual CPR with the Fibromyalgia I have.

As they proficiently & quickly administered pain medication, inserted a cannula & connected him up to a heart monitor.

They pronounced that it was not a Cardiac arrest! Praise God!

But the agony my husband was still experiencing was clearly evident, even with the extremely strong pain medication administered.

The decision to urgently transport him by Ambulance to our closest Emergency Department for assessment & diagnosis was made, as something was drastically wrong.

As they wheeled him into the back of the Ambulance. I had flashbacks of my late husband also leaving in an Ambulance…never to return home.


Many thoughts raced through my mind for my husband, Will I see my Steve again & will he return home?

I noticed I felt very calm & peaceful, God’s presence was surrounding us. God’s hand was upon the situation.

“I will never leave you,

nor will I ever forsake you,

nor will I leave you without support…”

Hebrews 13: 5-6

The paramedics said they would care for him as they closed the doors of the Ambulance.

I was very thankful to them. But also knew more importantly that he was in God’s care whatever the outcome.

As I prepared to travel to the hospital, my eldest daughter, son in law & grandsons arrived for our church plans.

My daughter, an RN (registered nurse) jumped in my car to accompany me to the Emergency Department.

When we arrived, diagnostic procedures were in progress.

Within a very short time, diagnosis was discovered, my lovely man was immediately prepped for emergency surgery.

As a perforation had occurred in the internal wall of his stomach & stomach acids were pouring into his abdominal cavity, a very serious & life threatening condition!

He was rushed to the operating theatre for major surgery as my daughter & I waited for the next six hours (shared with my husband’s permission).

Until next time, for an update, go to Grace in the unexpected…


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  1. Oh my goodness, Jennifer, I’m so glad help got there so quickly and that your husband got the care he needed. I’m sure he still has quite a way to go, recovering from surgery, but at least they caught the problem. Isn’t it wonderful to know that no matter what challenges we face God is with us? Sending warm thoughts and hugs your way sweet friend.

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  2. Thank you for catching us up. It is amazing how I have begun to really care about people around the world I have met through writing. It does give me a good opportunity to pray. I was never very good at those general “all the people in Africa” kind of prayers, but I am very motivated by the particular. May you continue to dwell in God’s peace.

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  3. Oh my! I am so sorry to hear about your husband’s situation, but praising God that he was able to get to a hospital and to have it taken care of.

    I’ve experienced that same peace you described both times my husband was hospitalized. It was definitely supernatural and foreign to me as I am anxious by nature.

    Praising God that He ministered to you while watching over and protecting your husband AND that your family was around to be there with you.

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  4. How scary, Jennifer! I’m assuming that you’ll follow this up with an encouraging post about his healing and progress! I didn’t know you lost your previous husband. I’m sure that made this even more startling and traumatic for you! I’ll be praying for his speedy and thorough recovery, my friend! Thanks for reminding us to trust the Lord in times of crisis and pain!

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  5. I have stomach “issues” and have been to the ER thinking it was a heart attack, not being able to breath due to the pain. I cannot imagine the pain he was in. Praising God with you that they found it and were able to fix the problem! My husband is the same way and it’s tough sometimes trying to help them. I so understand so much of this post. I’m glad I found you at Abounding Grace!

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    1. Lovely to have you drop by for a cuppa Amber, sorry to hear you have tummy issues. Not a pleasant issue to go through!
      Yes, he was in agony & on his way to heaven…it was that serious. But God had other plans & he’s slowly recuperating. Praise God!
      I didn’t want to lose another husband!
      The surgeon said stoic people are problematic when it comes to medical issues, as quite often the problem is let go until it becomes an emergency when it could have been picked up long beforehand if they had gone for help when the initial symptoms appeared! Or even recognized the symptoms…

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