The Feeling like you’ve been set aside…

Welcome my friend, come on in & we’ll enjoy a lovely cuppa together in my Spring garden here on the east coast of Australia.

Today the sun is shining, the birds are chirping & the cloudless sky is an azure blue, all seems right with the world in this moment.

We are sitting surrounded by Azaleas, Rhododendrons, African daisies, Blue Bells, beautiful purple & blue Match Stick Bromeliads & our strawberry plants are bearing fat ripe strawberries.

I have a selection of teas & a plate of treats for us to enjoy. Now we’re settled let us begin…

Seasons

Seasons come & go…don’t they? At the moment the Southern Hemisphere is in Spring while the Northern Hemisphere is in Autumn.

I’m sure we’re all well aware of the four seasons, the different seasons of life & the seasons that are related to aging.

You may remember Season is my word for this year, while I haven’t written about it in a while, I have been learning some valuable lessons around this theme.

Recently, I dropped by Lisa’s who has a Word of the year link up & she proposed the following (my interpretation) to;

  1. Look up the meaning of your word/theme.

& ask yourself the following questions;

  1. Does this meaning change how you view this word?
  2. Does this meaning give you a new idea for practicing your word?

Hmmm…great suggestions.

So thinking that the meaning of Season was pretty straight forward, I thought I’d look it up anyhow as it couldn’t hurt…right?

On looking up Season I saw the two meanings I already knew, that of the four seasons & to season food.

However, there were more meanings in fact another two!

One being a series of events within a Season (ie. episodes) & the following which is the one that really struck me;

 The Seasoning of timber, felled timber is held in a waiting period for it to Season until it’s ready for its purposeful use (it has to have just the right moisture content, in other words it needs to lose moisture for any purposeful use). 

Hmmmm….Wow!

What really jumped off the screen to me were the following words, ‘held in a waiting period until it’s ready for its purposeful use.’

Why?

Well for a long time now hubby & I feel that we’ve been in just such a season, you see both of us are in early retirement, due to chronic health conditions.

We had thought that we would continue to work in our respective professions until we stepped into Heaven.

Unfortunately, we went from being very busy people to well retirement literally overnight but not at the same time, I went first.

While my husband, who could see the writing on the wall (God’s clear direction) that with his health issues & the physical demands of his work in the Building Industry at the time were not going to be a continuing combination.

So he set about retraining into a less physically demanding job, a profession in the medical field. Excelling in his degree & clinical prac which he enjoyed immensely.

Sadly, during this time we lost our son in law in a horrific car accident & six months later hubby lost his Dad due to another devastating accident.

Hubby’s health markedly declined at the end of this period & with another chronic diagnosis, he too had to take early retirement. Which was a devastating blow & a most difficult situation to grasp for both of us.

So you can see why we’re feeling that we’ve been placed into a Season of waiting… the feeling of being in a prolonged Winter.

While we acknowledge the amazing work & blessings that God has been doing in this Season.

We feel that God has something more for us ahead. Although we have no idea at this point what that is or when that will happen. But we trust that He will reveal it to us in His perfect time.

Getting back to Lisa’s suggestions

Does this meaning change how you view this word?

Yes, it has! The meaning of being set aside to Season has enriched my world beyond measure. Knowing that we are in this time of waiting until the right time comes for His purpose is comforting.

Does it give you a new idea for practicing your word? 

Yes, knowing that we are being Seasoned for God’s purpose has given me renewed inspiration & insight.

Especially insight into what God is doing in our lives during this season, which has been far deeper spiritually then I had even imagined.

Thinking of the timber needing to lose its excess moisture to be ready for its purposeful use has given me the following analogy, that we too need to ‘let go of the thoughts, dreams & things of the past,’ to be ready for His future purpose.

As Isaiah 43:18-19 tells us,

“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.”

Do you have a word or theme for the year my friend? What has God being teaching you?

I’d love to hear about it, please share in the comments below.

Until next time,

Jennifer

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47 thoughts on “The Feeling like you’ve been set aside…

  1. Paula @ Gracefilled Moments's avatar Paula @ Gracefilled Moments

    Stopping by for a lovely cuppa and a sweet treat. What you’ve discovered about seasons is really interesting. Who knew?
    I really appreciate you sharing your season with Sweet Tea & Friends this month dear friend.

  2. quietspirit2's avatar quietspirit2

    I once reviewed a book by Tony Evans that defined the seasons of our lives. Reading your blog entry hear has given me a new way to look at the word SEASON, that of holding things until they were ready for their intended purpose. I come here from Lisa Notes on FB. I participate in her one word for 2023. Peace and blessings to you and yours.

  3. It’s funny that when I see SEASON, I basically think of only seasons of the year and in “this season” of life. But there is so much more to seasons once I think about it (or easier, when you point it out to me, lol)!

    Your insight is super helpful to me too: “The meaning of being set aside to Season has enriched my world beyond measure. Knowing that we are in this time of waiting until the right time comes for His purpose is comforting.” I’ll apply this to my own situation. Thanks so much, Jennifer!

  4. Joanne's avatar Joanne

    Having milled our own lumber before a few times I knew it had to “weather” but didn’t know it was also referred to as seasoning! Using fresh cut lumber will cause things to shrink and warp as the wood dries out. I’m sure He has a plan for you that will all be revealed in His time.

  5. Jennifer, I had never really considered that unexpected definition of “season.” I feel l like I’m in a waiting season as God prepares me for . . . something. May we seek Him first in everything we do. 

  6. Joanne Viola's avatar Joanne Viola

    Jennifer, it is amazing how God works in our lives in every season of life. All for His purposes. All for our good. All to the glory of His Name. I recently heard this song and your post reminded me of it. May it bless you, sweet friend!

  7. I think sudden deaths from accidents are especially devastating and I am sorry you had two of them so close together. Retirement is a spiritual challenge, a time God can remake us in ways we hadn’t considered. Isn’t that always the way though.

    1. Thank you Elizabeth.
      I like your following statement;
      “Retirement is a spiritual challenge, a time God can remake us in ways we hadn’t considered. Isn’t that always the way though.” Yes, it is! ☺️

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