The Invisible Tools

“They was right in front of me all the time!” said my husband sheepishly when he came in from his workshop.

Have you ever had one of those moments my friend, where you have been searching for something looking high & low, checking & rechecking the same area only to find what you’ve been looking for has been right in front of you all the time, staring you in the face?

This is what my husband experienced this week.

Although, I think we can all relate to going through a similar experience when we’ve misplaced things like car keys, our mobile phone or eye glasses.

Why this fascinating psychological phenomenon happens is what we’ll be discussing today over our cuppa’s.

Today, I have a blend of Russian Caravan & Lady Grey tea, my creation & a home made Date & Almond Protein ball, delicious!

What are you having my friend?

It’s about assumptions & expectations!

Researchers found that the reason we often can’t find what we’re looking for, even though it’s often right in front of us is that our expectation of that object has become slightly skewed in our memory bank.

Let me explain;

In my husband’s case he had a certain picture in his mind of what that particular thing looked like, he even described it to me in detail.

My normally highly organised man had recently reorganised his workshop thus causing the situation.

When he actually found what he was looking for he realised it wasn’t exactly what he had pictured in his mind after all.

In other words his expectation of what it looked like had become slightly skewed because it wasn’t in it’s normal setting.

It’s the same case when we ‘lose’ something like our car keys or mobile phone, if they’re not found where we would normally expect them to be, our expectation of seeing them in their familiar setting is instantly skewed within our mind.

Confusion & panic ensue.

Then in our search for the item we can miss it even when it’s right in front of us!

As stated in the following article;

“What we pay attention to

is largely determined by our expectations

 of what should be present,”

said Christopher Chabris, a cognitive psychologist and researcher. Ref

Christopher’s research highlighted how incorrect assumptions from our expectations can inhibit our ability to see what’s right in front of us.

So very interesting!

‘And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more

in real knowledge and all discernment,

so that you may approve the things that are excellent,

in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ.’

Phil 1:9

Please be very alert to false & misleading doctrines that are presented as ‘truth’ dear friend.

Let the Holy Spirit & God’s Word be your guide.

Until next time,

Jennifer 

You’re most welcome to join me in The Reading Nook

Or 

In Prayer

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