Welcome, today is a special day for reflection, I am so glad you dropped by for our time of sharing together…
I have been given a beautiful gift, by my daughter, personally carried all the way from the Palace of Versailles in France.
It is a tea dedicated & blended in Marie Antoinette’s honor, Queen of France 1755 – 1793. It is a black Ceylon tea flavored with apples & roses picked from the King’s Kitchen Gardens in Versailles!
As I open the pretty pink & gold box, I am meet with the beautiful sweet fragrance of freshly cut roses.
I brew the tea, I have my regal setting ready, used for special occasions, a treat of Gf double choc brownie with fresh strawberries awaits.
I lift the cup to have the first taste of this royal blend, the brewed fragrance is now a mixture of sweet apples & roses, melding with the aromas of chocolate & strawberries.
This is a delightful sensory experience
The tea is very delicate & tasty, a very smooth blend, the combination is so pleasing… I pour a second cup, while I enjoy my treat in purposeful reflection…
This special occasion is my son Benjamin’s birthday…however he won’t be joining me to celebrate today, as it is also the anniversary of his passing. You see he was born sleeping many years ago.
I no longer grieve a life not lived, though I do find myself quite thoughtful at this time, each year…
I like to remember him in contemplative reflection, with a special cup of tea & a tasty treat…it’s healing.
You see you never get ‘over’ the loss of a child or loved one
Rather you come to a place of acceptance & live in that acceptance…accepting that he lived within, he died & I am absolutely assured of seeing him again through the promises of being born anew of the Spirit.
Over the years, I have had the privilege of sharing my story many times, to many people, in many different places both as a guest speaker & face to face.
However, I had not written about my experience for publishing… in 2017 I launched my second book which you may access in a complimentary read HERE
This exercise was very therapeutic, being able to put these important experiences of my life & the lives of my family into a book.
That blended writing, publishing & hand compilation was a very pleasant healing experience.
It is healthy to grieve a life lost & acknowledge that they are gone from your life, it is okay to honor & remember them. You may like to visit the grave with fresh flowers or be in quiet reflection in the time you set aside.
You may find writing your story therapeutic, this is a healthy way of processing grief.
These activities remember & honor those who have gone before us & help our own grief to heal.
However, being stuck in any particular area of grief ~ eg. anger, deep sadness, fear of the future without your loved one, blame, denial, regret, or an overwhelming feeling of loneliness, for a prolonged period of time, not processing your grief, isn’t healthy.
If you find that this has happened to you, please seek professional help…so you may live the abundant life you were created to live & that your loved one desired you to live…
Until next time dear friend…
Jennifer
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Or
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What a lovely gift – and what a beautiful way to remember. I look forward to being able to wrap my arms around my little girl, Gracie, in heaven! The more heaven holds those I love, the more like home it looks! There’s still much work ahead for those I love here! Thank you for sharing how to comfort and how to remember!
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Thank you Maryleigh! What amazing hope we have that we will one day be reunited with our loved ones in the Lord, including our dear children who have gone before us, into the loving arms of our heavenly Father. What joy they behold now!
Maybe your Gracie is enjoying time with my daughter Candy & my son Benjamin ♥
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Hi Jennifer, Thank you for inviting me to come visit your blog. I’ve never been before and I love it! The Lord has gifted you with a lovely writing style. And what a gift your daughter brought back for you!
And now you are turning your profound grief into a gift for others by sharing your heart and offering encouragement.
It was such a blessing to visit your sweet your blog.
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Lovely to have you drop by Karen, I appreciate your encouraging words & glad that you were blessed.
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As a fellow tea drinker, I love the concept of your blog! The writing is great and i love the pix! We mix our own blends of loose teas to create our specialties here at my house and all six of us love a warm cup on a cold day. You ought to share recipes and links to tea sites. that’d be wonderful
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Thank you Karen, lovely of you top drop by & for your kind words & suggestions… our weather is cooling here so comfy cups of tea that warm us up are a delight.
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What a lovely way to remember and what a day of rejoicing there will be in heaven one day when you’re reunited with your precious little ones!
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Thank you Donna, yes definitely a heavenly tea party to come!
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